Posts Tagged ‘wife’
♦Part 1♦ Marriage Counseling and Relationship Advice ❦Bishop T.D. Jakes❧
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MARRIAGE IN PLANO TX, 4 of 12 “YOU’LL NEVER KNOW…”
“10) Isolating. She demands or acts in ways that cause you to distance yourself from your family, friends, or anyone that would be concerned for your well-being or a source of support. This typically involves verbally trashing your friends and family, being overtly hostile to your family and friends, or acting out and starting arguments in front of others to make it as unpleasant as possible for them to be around the two of you. Result: This makes you completely dependent upon her. She takes away your outside sources of support and/or controls the amount of interaction you have with them. You’re left feeling trapped and alone, afraid to tell anyone what really goes on in your relationship because you don’t think they’ll believe you. You don’t have to accept emotional abuse in your relationship. You can get help or you can end it. Most emotionally abusive women don’t want help. They don’t think they need it. They are the professional victims, bullies, narcissists, and borderlines. They’re abusive personality types and don’t know any other way to act in relationships .”
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Marriage Help ~ Is Your Marriage A Freak Show?
Many people think that living out marriage as God designed it is some sort of freak show. Anytime we choose to do something God’s way, we open up the door to questions & lifted eyebrows; even rejection. It’s a risk we’re willing to take. joel and kathy davisson
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IHTV-118: Lean Cuisines Are Fattening & Couple Buddies
Are you eating Lean Cuisines to help you lose weight? These easy but tiny meals may appear to be a great low-cal choice, but they also contain a lot of bad ingredients, canceling the effect. In fact, they might cause you to binge! Also, researchers have found that couples have more intimate and honest relationships if they have couple buddies, couple friends who can provide support and perspective.
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Marriage in Islam – Sheikh Ahmad Ali (Part 1/7)
Marriage in Islam – Sheikh Ahmad Ali (Part 1/7)
(in the vid are some of my bros wedding pics)
The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) Said,
“O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his desires.’”
[Bukhari]
“Among His signs is [the fact] that He has created spouses for you among yourselves so that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has planted love and mercy between you; In that are signs for people who reflect”
Qur’an [30: 21]
Reported by Anas ibn Malik, the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) Said,
“When Allah grants someone a good wife, then He has helped him with one half of his Deen, Let him fear Allah in attending to the other half.”
[Related by Al-Tabarni and Al-Hakim]
Prophet SAW said
“The best of you are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you with my wives”
[Ibn Hibban]
Prophet SAW Said:
”The World and all things in it are Precious, and the Most precious thing in this World is a Virtuous Women”
[Ahmad and Muslim]
When a husband is happy at home then one person is happy BUT when a wife is happy at home then the whole house is happy
(Quote taken from: oneallah.weebly.com )
The Mahr (Dowry): Allah says (what means): “And give to the women their dowry with a good heart, but if they out of their own good pleasure remit any part of it to you, take it and enjoy it without fear of any harm. ”
(Al-Nisa 4:4)
The mahr can be of any amount, Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi was sallam) said, “Look for one even if it was an iron ring”
(Bukhari and Muslim)
But nowadays, talking with experience, in London, mahr has gone very expensive when one wants to get married. Mahr is in the region of 10,000-15,000 at this time, the bride is not asking for that much but the family is.
and Allah knows Best how much it will be when I get married!
This amount of money could be the life savings of one person but it don’t appeal to the families asking for such money for mahr.
They, the families asking for such money are putting a ‘Burden’ upon people that want to get married, but are unable to do so as they don’t have the money that the families request. Subhanallah.
“May Allah lift this burden off mankind the burden mankind has created and help those that want to get married and help those that want to find a right partner for marriage”
Ameeen!
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