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Marriage in Islam – Sheikh Ahmad Ali (Part 1/7)
Marriage in Islam – Sheikh Ahmad Ali (Part 1/7)
(in the vid are some of my bros wedding pics)
The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) Said,
“O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his desires.’”
[Bukhari]
“Among His signs is [the fact] that He has created spouses for you among yourselves so that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has planted love and mercy between you; In that are signs for people who reflect”
Qur’an [30: 21]
Reported by Anas ibn Malik, the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) Said,
“When Allah grants someone a good wife, then He has helped him with one half of his Deen, Let him fear Allah in attending to the other half.”
[Related by Al-Tabarni and Al-Hakim]
Prophet SAW said
“The best of you are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you with my wives”
[Ibn Hibban]
Prophet SAW Said:
”The World and all things in it are Precious, and the Most precious thing in this World is a Virtuous Women”
[Ahmad and Muslim]
When a husband is happy at home then one person is happy BUT when a wife is happy at home then the whole house is happy
(Quote taken from: oneallah.weebly.com )
The Mahr (Dowry): Allah says (what means): “And give to the women their dowry with a good heart, but if they out of their own good pleasure remit any part of it to you, take it and enjoy it without fear of any harm. ”
(Al-Nisa 4:4)
The mahr can be of any amount, Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi was sallam) said, “Look for one even if it was an iron ring”
(Bukhari and Muslim)
But nowadays, talking with experience, in London, mahr has gone very expensive when one wants to get married. Mahr is in the region of 10,000-15,000 at this time, the bride is not asking for that much but the family is.
and Allah knows Best how much it will be when I get married!
This amount of money could be the life savings of one person but it don’t appeal to the families asking for such money for mahr.
They, the families asking for such money are putting a ‘Burden’ upon people that want to get married, but are unable to do so as they don’t have the money that the families request. Subhanallah.
“May Allah lift this burden off mankind the burden mankind has created and help those that want to get married and help those that want to find a right partner for marriage”
Ameeen!
Duration : 0:11:37
Marriage and Family Values
The main purpose of marriage is to build the ummah, the nucleus of the ummah is the family and the family is the first piece and the first structure in the local level. It is the main focal and important element in the whole ummah. If the family has unity, harmony and tranquility, and have peace and have goal and they know what they want in this life and in the hereafter, they will be strong family….for more visit www.noora1.com
Duration : 14 min 56 sec
live as a stranger
=)♥~*Marriage in Islam*~♥
And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Undoubtedly in these are signs for those who reflect. (30:21)
Duration : 0:37:31