Archive for September, 2010
Wedding 1st Anniversary-unique gift idea
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A surprise for wifey on our 1st anniversary…there are other unique gift ideas at yours truly only
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Nanny needs help with Job.?
i’ve been a nanny for 3+years for the same family. I’m so sick of working for this family, i love the kids, but I would be more happy doing something less stressful. I’m 21 and I feel like the mother and father are always trying to find ways to take advantage of me. It’s like I’m fighting for a peace of mind. They have an unhealthy marriage. The wife lies and cheats on him and I do not want to be apart of it. Although I love the mother for all the great things she has given me. I just need to know what to do. Should just deal with it till I’m done with school? I get paid. $2,000mth for 30hrs but I feel like I work more hours. I clean, cook, take care of the kids the dog, pretty much I run the whole house.
I have also spoke to my boss about what I do in the house, but they always find ways to make me do it. Almost everyday I have to say no, and they have a way to make me feel bad about it. I try not to let them get to me, but its so hard on my mind, body, and soul.
Taking care of children and the household is very stressful and it takes a lot of time and patience. Being in the type of situation you are in puts more pressure on you and I understand why it is you would like to make a change. There are many stable homes where you might find a more desirable situation and a decent wage for child care and light housekeeping. If you are saying that you work 30 plus hours a week and get $2000 per month, it ends up that you are being paid a little more than $16 per hour with room and board included. If I were you, I would consult with other nannies and see what wages they are paid and what hours and responsibilities they are required to do. Don’t let this family make you feel guilty. I think you could find a job where you would be happier but that is a decision that only you can make. If you do end up going for another job, you must set up the ground rules as far as what you will do: child care, meal preparation, laundry, house keeping, etc.
I know that there are many housekeepers in our area who get $25 per hour. If you work an 8 hour day 5 times a week; you would end up with $1000 per week but would have to find housing unless you lived in. It is something to consider. You might also consider doing childcare for families during the day in one place where they would bring the child to you. You might work 10 hour days but you could also end up with $250 or more per child per week. (Maybe someone would allow you to babysit in their home for other families if you didn’t charge them for their child but used their residence for the daycare center. If you had four children to care for, you would make $1000 a week and you would have your evenings and weekends to yourself. These are just options.
help my love marriage astrology?
Plz help about marriage astrology help help pls?i want to know will i marry my bf?
im girl 22 yr old.
my birth date 13.02.88 born between 5:20 pm on saturday.
i m in love with a boy of my same age his date of birth is 03.10.87
me and my boy friend from india-maharashta-nagpur
according to the chart very difficult to marry.
Marriage Help – A Heartfelt Apology
To bring healing and closure to someone you've wronged requires an apology that comes from the heart; not just saying "sorry" because you got caught or to move on. Healing and closure won't come until you really feel how you hurt the other person.
Duration : 9 min 57 sec
husband very frustrated with our sex life and it hurts out marriage?
We’ve known each other for 7 years, married 4 years. Our sex life was great before we got married. But I found myself not wanting to have sex that often after we are married. His cheating in our first year of marriage did affect my desire to be intimate with him. But since we decided to stay together, I am willing to make it work for us.
He wanted a divorce last year, mostly because he was frustrated with our sex life. Yesterday, again he was thinking about going our separate ways. The reasons are: he’s frustrated with his job situation and our sex life.
I have to admit that our sex life is pathetic (about 2 times a month). It’s not that I don’t love him or am not attracted to him. I would like to be intimate with him more but I just don’t feel like initiating. And if he doesn’t come to me, I don’t ask for it. He told me he has given up on our sex life and doesn’t give a fxxk any more. He doesn’t want to try because I would just deny him.
I do want to have sex with him. I think about it all the time. But I don’t understand why I would push him away when he wants it. I don’t want my marriage to fall apart because of this….please help.
Note: we are not old. He’s 28 and I am 31….
If you don’t want to push him away then I don’t understand why you do. He has already almost left you once for it, and is now thinking about it again. What is it going to take to get you back to the woman he first met?
What you have to understand is, if you chose to forgive him, you chose to take him back and move past it.
I don’t agree with having a calendar and writing down the days you want to have sex. It should just happen, when you get the urge, do it.
I couldn’t imagine being like "Honey….Tuesday September 28th 3:45 p.m. we are having sex".
Things tend to come up, not everything can be planned.