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I need Christian dating advice?
I am dating for the first time ever and my boyfriend has been very patient with me, he waited for a few months to kiss me because he knew that I hadn’t kissed anybody before, and we’re still working on that now. I am a Christian and I’m waiting until marriage before I do anything physical ( or just before marriage) which I haven’t told him yet, but the thing is I always thought it would be easy to wait but I found out that its not that simple. we always cuddle when we watch movies or TV and whenever we do cuddle I get incredibly turned on, and I know he does to cuz his breathing gets really fast and he shakes his foot, its kinda cute. I don’t really want this bothering me every time we hang out, will this calm down after a bit? lol I know this question will sound stupid for most people that don’t hold this value like I do but for people that have waited until marriage I would appreciate some advice, thanks
Tell him about your values. I’m a 23 year old virgin, and when a guy asks me out I immediately tell him there will be absolutely no sex until I get a ring on my finger, and hears him say "I do". That usually eliminates much of the riff-raff out looking for a one night stand. Be honest and get his reaction. That may solve your problem
"Just before" is NOT waiting until you’re married. Your faith is being tempted.
anyone in an atheist Christian marriage?
I’m a Christian, but the guy I wanna marry is atheist…..does this sort of marriage work? I’d really like some advice…..thank you!!!
If being a Christian is important to you, you would want a Christian to help raise your children and not confuse them about Christianity while growing up. You are going to want your family to go to church, but he will never go. The kids are going to want to know why. If you are a real Christian, you wouldn’t even consider marrying a man that doesn’t believe. Lots of problems in the future. I would think twice about this.
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My boyfriend says no sex before marriage but… asking for Christians/any advice!?
I posted this in the relationship section but feel I’ll have better answers asking those who are Christian.
I’m 18, non religious and have been with my boyfriend who I completely and utterly love for over a year, he shares my love yet is Christian.
Ever since we first met, I have always understood the rule – no sex before marriage. Never have I ever tried to change this for him.
However, a few months into our relationship he told me that he previously had sex with his ex girlfriend, of which he said was the biggest mistake of his life – he went on to repent his sin and ask for Gods forgiveness, he now see’s himself as a virgin again. For me being non – religious, this is hard to understand and the fact he gave himself to another girl and won’t with me makes me feel… well y’know, it’s been hard.
I learned to accept it and over the past year we have done everything sexually apart from pentrative sex.
Over the past few weeks, things seem to of got more and more sexual between us so I decided to ask him what he thought about the fact we couldn’t have sex. We have never spoken about it before.
He says that he loves me so much, that everytime we’re intimate he wishes he could, yet the only thing stopping him is that he doesn’t want to let God or his family down – I understand. Yet I find it highly frustrating when he says that he can’t wait until marriage and he wants to be my first no matter what. He’s getting confused about what the right thing to do is – he’s can’t understand why some Christians believe that even to kiss before marriage is wrong and others think differently. He also thinks that the bible is hugely outdated and how can sex before marriage possibly apply to this century!
So basically, it’s a huge muddle!
I love him to the bottom of my heart, I see sex as LOVE. I have never felt the need to give my virginity away before but with him, it’s just different – it feels soooo right.
The fact that he has before and is confused about what is right and wrong is frustrating – yet never would I push him into anything and the bottom line is I don’t want him to go against God.
I want him to do what HE wants rather than what he THINKS he has to do in the expectations of others.
If anybody can offer me any advice then I would be so grateful, whether I am being out of order or what Christians are allowed to do – I mean so many Christians do have sex before marriage – is it up to them?
Please help, thankyou!
And sorry it’s so long!
You are thinking about what he wants. This is the right way to approach sex.
He seems to be thinking about what he wants. This is the wrong way to approach sex.
Think carefully about whether you want to be long-term with such a selfish person.
But choose the way you wish to:- only you will ever need to live with the consequences.